Heh. Some good advice bears repeating. I like what I'm hearing from you -- You're making good decisions, thoughtfully. Keep it up. And let me know if I start to bore or annoy you with my ramblings... or if there's anything else we can do to help.

Even when you've been through it a few times, grieving is one of those terrifying situations where it seems as if there is no right thing to say... and yet most people would say anything if they thought they could make things better by it. Just... speak up in your own defense, eh? I trust your judgement.